Believe yourself.
 
 
All the psychologist believe that we should believe ourselves and this is absolutely right. But before to believe yourself, you have to believe your thoughts and ideas.
The leader of Iran always used to remind that believe yourself. When there is a discussion about commitment, so many people change to weak and lazy people. They might say, they will do something, but they never do. They just accept the commitment that they think they can fulfill it. If there is necessary, promise less and entrust yourself but try to be accurate and do your best.
Little by little, your promise will change to your rules and that is when you really believe yourself. People sing under rain , but when they really face with problem in life, they aggravate a lot. Human being,  consider a high value of luxury in his life. A high percentage of anxiety and stress in life , comes from our laziness and comfort in life. Being so much relaxes and comfortable, can be a reason for getting bored. Must and must not rules in life, can lead to a useless brain.  The less you make rules for yourself, the easier you can react . We all get face with different difficulties in life, we will be criticized, ignored, bankrupted. When the new days come along, you will accept your past as a part of your life. Life needs change as well!!!
The other point is , braveness is always works better than intelligence and this will annoy some people. Awards always goes to those who have  been situated themselves in danger, either their money or themselves or both!!!
 
Conclusion:
 
Being brave dose not mean that thee is no fear. The only difference between people who do big things in life and those who don’t, is just fear. People who do not do anything in life , still have fear as well but the difference is they are scared of little and non important thing while the other group are scared of real difficulties.
When there is always fear, why not to be scared of something important!!!
Did you just learn from those who admire you or you have learned from  those who ignored and  fight with you as well!!
 There is no point , just  to be between people who just admire you and your positive attitudes.
In this case, when you are a loser , then they are some people who will put the blame on others not on you.
But there is always good, to have people who are against us and our idea and face with us!!!