مشق 31
It is not important where to start!! It is important how to end!!
Target is the best factor to lead somebody or team. Have you thought when a group of team members enjoy their job most? Please do not say it.
Do you think when there is an award or a big interest in a particular task? Absolutely not.
On the contrary, if people do not know exactly what to do, then putting an award will make it worse. When there is an award for a shooting person, he/she will shake. People, who play soccer, make the best part of the game in unbelievable time and situation that no body expects it to happen.
Why?
What is the reason while we really take something very seriously, we might start to shake?
Why when read a book just to get a mark, we learn less? Or when player just think of win not enjoyment, they can not perform very well?
People who spend their weekend in a stadium, for sure they think far more than just to play a game. Being with successful team, not only is very enjoyable but also it is a great lessen as well.
We can learn things like:
Live in present time: the less we think to win and other people’s judgment, the more we achieve and we can play better.
A good player is not necessary a good coach as well: on the whole, leading and coaching is different from playing. When somebody swimming in a pool, he might not even be able to find the right direction in the water. A coach look at the game from the outside and player is right in the heart of the game.
The prospective of a fight leader can be much different from his soldiers. A perfect producer, might not be a good actress, but he can be very successful in his own job.
Force to do something can never make a difference: let people be free to decide and choose, then they can be more responsible for the task they are given . The genuine power and attention comes up when you are really settle down and do not need to prove anything.
Be unperturbed: Being angry never change anything. Have you seen an angry golf player? The more you know, relaxed you will be. Reviled and disgust feeling about something just waist your energy.
Whatever you think, it happens: blaming others did not solve any problem. When you fell nothing goes well and everyone is against you, then it will happen too.
The main reason of being astonishing, is just huge dedication in successful people:
A common audience might think that Michael Jordan talent is just something natural in his spirit. But not so many people are born with extra -ordinary talents. A close look shows that the main reason of success in these celebrities is just their commitment to their job.
Always focus in your dreams and aims but don’t stick to them.
Try to see your target big and important in your life and never forget about them but remember do not stick to them!! Being free is the most important factor of attraction. A farmer as long as just think of a green and beautiful farm will never get it. He should plant, trust God and relax to get it with a great view and prospective to the bright future.
Think of a situation when you don’t like to happen like missing a goal in a soccer play. Human being’s brain act based on what you imagine and think.
You might think with yourself, throw the ball to the wall and there will be the same picture in your mind of an unsuccessful goal in this game, and consequently you will watch it as you imagined before.
Fear is your biggest enemy.
Everywhere, whether in a sport or in an interview job or in the middle of a lecture .
While you focus on things you are sacred of them, then this fears and imaginations, will lead to the event itself.
Focus in your dreams and targets but not in your fears.
Conclusion:
All children should have time for sport. Not just for getting an award but for lessens they get through the games.
One of this lessens is:
It is not important where to start!! It is important how to end!!
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