درس 14 زندگی
Have a positive mind.
When it is supposed that you are going to improve in life, and have a better and more grown up personality, talk about your decision with a positive attitude. There is no need to underestimate yourself and your personality at the moment. In order to make a positive change you need a positive feeling.
And this feeling is the same as merit and capability to get better.
Stating your past negative experience will bring negative feelings too as a consequence which this feeling will be a big obstacle of achieving your dreams and decisions. If you really want to change right now decide not to talk about how you have been in the past. You might have done things which might seems ok in that time but now, there are not common any more. Trying to show that you have always been positive would not change anything.
Try to change your mind's perception now. Your words come from your mind and what you think and your thought comes from your view.
How would you see yourself in your mind?
What ever you see makes your thoughts and talks .
Imagine , you're very dominant and strong. The more this picture is more clear, colorful, more transplant and closer, your confidence will increase too because your feeling toward yourself will get better.
Practice number14:
Close your eyes. Make a perfect picture of yourself. Imagine yourself as the best role model of confidence and self-esteem.
Try to keep up to date this picture in your mind. If I say, make this picture all the time in your mind, is not enough. You are just what you think
NLP=Neuro Linguistic Programm