Help other people
 
One of the best ways after having enough attention to ourselves is give help to other people. For sure it already happened to you that you asked  your boss or your manger to help one of your friends to get a loan or ask for doing over time and earn more money by this way.
 Have you noticed how yourself confidence raises up when you do such a thing for some body. When you help other people you gain a good strength which is your self esteem. Helping others bring this point to you that I have enough abilities to help other people. When you help a blind person to pass him/her the street you feel very good in yourself which might nothing else make you feel like that. In your life .make sure allocate a specific time to your family and relatives and take some responsibility  from home  .Also allocate some of your time to  other people  apart from your own family. But be careful adding up these two times not be more than the time you spend for yourself. Be aware that helping other people brings you high confidence  just when you have put enough attention to yourself . Helping other people with no plan or target is not a help at all. These kinds of help are not only being considered as a help but also it is more likely hurting others.  Helping people in the streets , doing your children?s assignment  and ?. are not  considered helping at all.  Instead of give a hungry person some fish to eat , teach him how to go fishing and can do it and after that he wont need you anymore.
Helping in a way which can cause dependency is not  a help. On the other hand it is something outrageous  you do to somebody.
   
Practice number 25:
Help people , help them in an actual way. Teach them how to live. Instead of giving them money , teach them how to earn money. Avoid the kind of help which make people be dependent on you